Lessons Learned and More...

Lessons learned...and more

Headed to Luxembourg I asked several people if I was heading to the right train, answer unanimous, yes.  I got on, settled down, felt like a real traveler as I hooked up my headphones to my itouch, turned on my 60s playlist, and closed my eyes as a warm blanket of the past surrounded me.  Strangely my mind wandered to my exhusband and and some sweet memories drifted in.  At that exact moment my random 40+ songs playlist started playing Evergreen by Barbra streisand, my wedding song!  So strange, but not the first time that has happened.  Perhaps I wasn't alone after all?  

Watching the countryside of France pass out the window, I marveled at how far I have come, figuratively and literally!  When the song 500 Miles came on, I only had to put in 5000 miles to be appropriate.  Green pastures and clouds above drifted.  Beautiful afternoon, excellent choice for the day. 

So where is the lesson learned?  Well, we were almost to the last stop in France when the train manager came by and informed me I was on the wrong car and was NOT headed to Luxembourg!  How had everyone been wrong?  Well, apparently it wasn't them.  New to me...There were some cars that split away to go to Luxembourg  and there were assigned seats which I was not aware of, and I needed to quickly change cars before the split took place!  Oh my!  Lucky for me I wasn't carrying any luggage, so the switch wasn't bad...lessons learned!  Look for all info. Seats, cars, etc.  

Felt like a pro on the way back to Paris on the last train, correct car, correct seat, Paris bound.  I met two other people who had gone to Luxembourg for the day.  A darling young lady from Kazakhstan and a man from Baltimore.  He sounded so much like me, he had a few days off, called the airlines and asked where he could get with 40,000 miles, so he flew into dusseldorf and will leave from Brussels.  He was going to a different little town each day, I stick to larger places...well for now.   Too bad there wasnt a connection there, but I did enjoy the young lady.

It's interesting to observe people.  I try not to judge, but I do.  On the final part of the journey to Luxembourg there was a lovely (seems to be my word of the day) woman and her darling little boy.  She had things for him to do, interacted with him, he giggled when I spoke English and was so proud when he said goodbye in English.  On the way back to Paris a lady got on across from me and next to the young lady from Kazakhstan with a young son.  Cute, but a totally different scenario, the young lady moved.  The mother got on her cell and gave the child a bag of chips and a plastic bottle of orange drink.  He proceeded to dump chips, make a huge mess, yelled, kicked, banged the bottle...mom still talked!  So, so sad!  Of course I wanted to share my thoughts, but wisely I didn't.  After the girl next to them left, she put him in that seat and finally got off the phone and gave it to him to play with.  Then she talked to him and he ignored her, hmm wonder where he got that behavior?  She took her phone back and got on it again and now he was kicking me.  I watched to see how long before she noticed, and she did and stopped him, still on the phone and turned him around so then he was kicking her.  I was glad when we reached Paris, but so sorry for their future.  What a difference positive attention and interaction makes for a child.  Teacher in me talking...

Was hoping to see the tour Eiffel sparkling that night, but by the time I got to my hotel and headed out, it was just too late to be safe, so when I got on the bus, found out it was the last one, so I would have to take the metro back, then remembered how dark the station was when it was closed when I got back from moulin rouge the night before, I got off the bus and decided that would have to be saved for the next trip.  I could see it in daylight instead.  Very, very wise decision!  

So this morning I checked my Eurostar ticket once again, yes, it left at 2:45, plenty of time.  I just couldn't leave Paris without seeing the tour Eiffel, so off I headed, now much more comfortable on the metro.  Only one change of trains.  I think the best part of this stay in Paris is how comfortable I became traveling on the buses and metro and regional trains.  I think I can get anywhere now, and if anyone would have told me that 5 years ago when terrified me was following Cesar around like a scared puppy, I'd have never believed it!  I'm a slow learner, but I feel like spending time in Paris alone was the ultimate test!  I passed!

However I'm not so sure I'm passing any test on train travel!  Just when I though I knew it all...

I returned from the delightful visit to the tour d'eiffel and was calmly packing and organizing and was ready to take a shower.  Something made me look at the ticket once again as I moved it to my small purse.  I have a very good routine to keeping track of travel documents.  So I checked it once again and couldn't believe my eyes...I'd been looking at the arrival time!  The train left at 13:13, I checked the time on my iPad, 12:40!  I know that you can't check in later than 30 minutes before hand, oh my god, I was panicked.  I go to great lengths to be sure this NEVER happens!  I stuffed everything (I hope) into the suitcases and threw on clothes and flew out of the hotel room, luggage in tow.  Perhaps 5 minutes.  I stopped at the desk and I was already checked out, so I walked quickly across the street to the train station.  I took the lift to the Eurostar level.  Luckily a very sweet young lady, was so kind and walked me rough all the steps, there was leaving France, entering England, passport checks...and then I had to walk down to the very last car for my reserved seat. I felt like i was walking to london!  I made it!  And here I sit, on a sold out train as everyone heads off for holiday.  Whew!

The last two days have been holidays in Europe and truly many things have been closed.  It is the celebration of the ending of WWII, and I was quite moved by large flower sprays, arrangements, at monuments and even in one of the train stations, in memory of lost soldiers.  Would this be armistice day in America?  How meaningful it was to the countries where the war was.  In Europe the wars are real, not a page in a history book.  Interesting time to be here.  Of course, just like in America, a holiday is a time to play, and playing is good.  Rick Steve's says that Europe is both a classroom and a playground, so true, wish I would have thought of that myself.

In Luxembourg the city was so closed up for the holiday I didn't even find a place to try their potato pancakes.  I took the hop on/off bus.  Not the best plan, parts of the old city were charming, but I really didn't enjoy the part of the tour around the big banks and govt buildings.  On the way back to Paris there was a kind couple behind me and she was from luxembourg and said they are known for the beautiful paths in their forest.  I'd read that the countryside is beautiful so I might have to return to explore more.  That girl was from there and her boyfriend was from Australia and was quite pleased that he has a job in Paris opening a new hostel.  She wasn't sure she wanted to give up the quiet peaceful life in Luxembourg.  I do love meeting people and hearing stories of the interesting people who travel.  What a world this is, and how fortunate I am to have the opportunity to experience it while I can.

But for now. Au revoir Par-ee!

People

People...the icing on the cake of travel!

Where do I start?  Chronologically seems like the best way, but the most interesting person so far is too much fun to write about, so I will start with him/them...

Walking around the gardens after closing was a thrill I'd been looking forward to.  What I didn't know was that artists may be allowed in after the public has left, and thanks to my photography, I'm considered an artist.  So there I was, wandering in paradise with a handful of people painting the beauty.  There were two men working, one with a big straw hat, looking a bit like Monet himself.  I stopped to chat with them.  Ahh,  those French accents are charming!  So we chatted and even though I asked who they were, their answers were jokes, mostly.  I chatted with another lady who is here from south Carolina to see her new grand baby and bought an apt near her daughter in paris to vacation.  She is an artist, a support herself artist.

The next day I passed the straw hat artist painting on the street.  I stopped to chat and told him I had just come from seeing Monets grave at the church, which by the way was beautiful and an emotional experience for me.  He asked if I had seen the magical magnetic rocks, which I hadn't.  I was too exhausted to walk back but we started talking about energy healing.  I shared that I did that and he asked if I would help his friend's knee that evening, so we made a date at the gardens.   There can be worse things than meeting 2 French men in the enchanting gardens to do reiki!  And this man, the straw hat painter, shared with me that his friend was indeed the head gardener at the gardens!  Wow, I had met the creator of that beauty!  Now that is an artist of grand proportions!  I'm not sure how much the reiki helped, but for me, spending that time with the artists, they were painting, was quite special!  After a while, I wandered off to take a few hundred more photos, then bid them au revoir, but not before mr. Straw hat asked for my contact info and website, so I asked for his card and will be in touch.   Friends at the gardens, just must return I think!

After my first night at the gardens, the S. Carolina artist and I were headed to the same place for dinner, so she asked me to join her.  I was excited to visit that restaurant because I had some of my cards to give them of a photo I'd taken years ago when I was there with my driver.  It is of stairs lined with big pots of pansies going up to an artist studio in the back.   I gave the cards to the man at the bar who said he was the manager.  He was thrilled and said that it was my home from now on.  I was so pleased that he, and the other manager, loved the cards.  I think that probably what he meant was that I was welcome anytime.  It is so much fun to have people appreciate my work.  

At the restaurant we were talking to the people from Australia on one side of us.  We were sitting out under the big trees and it was as though all of the people sitting there were one big group, everyone chatting with everyone else.  Delightful evening, especially for me, who usually dines alone.  Well, the Australians on one side of us started talking to the Australians on the other side of us...and the impossible happened...they knew each other!  Now keep in mind we are in a tiny village in the French countryside where few people visit, and even fewer spend the night.  Well, it turns out that one lady had been the 5th grade teacher of the other!!  Truly!  That is a small world story that rivals the one of my meeting someone in Venice who had known Cesar in Australia.  Hmmm, the small world stories seem to include australia...

And those are the 'icing on the cake' people stories from this French village.

But it isn't the end of my people stories from France!  I also met a Frenchman who could have been a model of romance book covers.  And our meeting was far too short, but fun.  After boarding the train from Brussels, I was considering the train's offer to get me a taxi to my hotel.  I asked about the price and it would be 15€ more to have 'my own' taxi.  Suddenly a beautiful blonde man sitting in front of me, turned around and looked over the seat and shook his head telling me not to do it.  After the man selling the taxis had departed that beautiful man looked over the seat again and with that charming French accent, told me he was so impressed I'd asked if there was an extra cost because he hadn't the first time and was shocked at the final price.  He said he was from Paris and if it was okay with me, he would show me where 2 taxi stands were.  Okay with me?  I think I might have followed him anywhere, but indeed, it turned out to be only to two taxi stands, the first had a long line.  When we got off the train he asked if he could help with my bags, and made me laugh when he saw how they were bulging and asked if I had ever thought of perhaps getting a larger suitcase!  Pretty funny, and I explained I was trying two small ones, thinking it would be easy.  He asked if I was okay following him and it was a bit hard to not answer I would follow him anywhere!  But I maintained my composure as we walked about a block to a taxi stand and he told the man in French where my hotel was, helped load my bulging suitcases, hugged me, kissed me on my cheek wishing me a pleasant stay and journey, and romance cover Frenchman was gone.  And I was on my own, but only for a bit...

A teacher from my school is from France and had arranged for me to meet a friend of hers, a retired school psychologist who has retired here.  Anne and I spent a lovely evening, she was a wonderful tour guide and very interesting lady, so we saw several places I'd never even heard of, and it was a lovely time on the city buses with the locals.  Anne made living in another country seem much too charming...and tempting!  If my retirement were more...I'm quite sure part of my year would be spent in a European country...but how could I leave Bram and meli?

People..

Note to self...

...NEVER travel on a regional train on a Friday afternoon!  Oh my, what a trip that was!  Arriving in Brussels late, due to the delays of the high speed train from Amsterdam, I missed the earlier train to Bruges.  As I was looking for the train I started talking to a lovely older couple from Australia.  They were nice enough to stick with me so we could figure out where to go.  We got to the train and a lady would not let us board, so we searched for the next one and the platform was too far away for us to make, so I sat with all our luggage while they went 2 different directions to get info on the next train.  When we boarded we were met with the Friday afternoon crowd and there were no seats.  Standing all the way to Ghent was not a pleasant way to travel.  In Ghent, many people got off and all of us standing got seats for the remaining trip.  In front of me was a family of 4.  After a while the man came in to check tickets, a very handsome young man.  Well, he got to the family right in front and they started yelling at him in French.  Of course I had no idea what was going on.  The conductor remained calm and quiet and gentle, which just seemed to fuel them.  Finally a lady across the aisle from me shouted something and smiled and they started yelling at each other.  She looked at me quite proud of what was going on and I said in English I had no idea what was going on.  She proudly told me in English that she had told them To go back to France!  I was still puzzled and she explained further, they were complaining over and over that no one ever has to stand up in France in 1st class!  Well the yelling continued and I was hoping I would not be in the middle of a physical altercation.  Then a man behind the lady across the aisle shouted "shut up!!". And everyone did shut up!  When the young man got to me to check my ticket, he very sweetly asked if that had been going on the whole trip.  I said I had no idea what had been going on because I didn't understand a word!  At least I made him laugh and he moved on.  Whew, disaster averted!

So today, Sunday, I boarded the train at Bruges, headed to Brussels where I will catch the train to Paris.  Well, I came bumbling on, tripping over my 2 small suitcases and tote.  What a sight I was!  Sure could use some help, but I can make it on my own, although sometimes others do offer to help.  Getting on the train is a challenge for me without the luggage, so with luggage...oh my!  I get the last suitcase to my seat and plop down into the seat, piles of luggage next to me, and the lady across from me starts very disgustedly talking to me.  Of course I had no idea what she was saying so I just pretended to listen.   Then I heard a word I understood, premier and she was pointing to the 1 on the door.  I realized that she was telling me I was in the wrong car, class two was up ahead.  I very sweetly smiled and said, oh I do have a first class ticket.  Apparently she understood, she looked shocked and then started rambling to a lady behind me.  Oh my!  That reaction of shock was alone worth the 10 euro cost to upgrade.  Not to mention it means I get free drinks and food on the high speed part of the journey.  A well spent 10 euros!  I never experienced anything like this in all the train travel I did with Cesar!

Leaving Bruges was a bit sad this morning, but at least I have more adventures to look forward to!  Bruges is charming, and I am quite sure I will always find it so!  

Travel - A Journey of Challenges

I love travel, as you know.  I love new experiences, learning about new cultures and foods and peoples.  But that isn't all that travel is, those experiences are earned, by dealing with challenges along the way.  

For example, right now I'm sitting on the 'high speed' train from Amsterdam to Brussels.  A high speed train that is at a dead stop...apparently there are technical difficulties.  Ahh, the not so sweet surprises of travel!  Will I now make the train connecting to bruges?  Not a chance, but luckily that is a ticket that can be changed for later.  The high speed train is a reserved seat, one that can't be changed unless a much more expensive flexible ticket is purchased.  

The train moved again and now we have a delay in Antwerp for a technical problem.  Travel trials and tribulations continue.  An announcement was just made, they are all in 3 languages, Dutch, or Flemish, French and english last of all.  Interesting to be in places where english isn't #1 language.  The announcement...the free wifi on the train isn't working...so much for that perk of 1st class.   I knew I'd have my hands full with my 2 rolling suitcases and travel bag so I opted to pay the additional 10 euros for 1st class.  Many less people, reserved seats, and food and beverages for free.  So with a can of Perrier, I had a caramel cake and a small cheese sandwich.  Cheese, a delightful part of a visit to holland.  I am familiar with the colorful wheels of flavored cheeses, but today, thanks to the very kind taxi driver I had from last year, I had a cheese tour of a store representing the only cheese still made by hand.  Kees, pronounced Case, was the wonderful man who drove me from Lisse last year to de Hague.  I got in touch with him and payed quite a bit to have him take me to the Amsterdam central station for my onward journey, knowing I could trust him.

There is a magic being in Europe, it seems people aren't as stressed with the delays and 'not so sweet' surprises.  I'm not in a great hurry anyway, I know the frietes and waffles will be waiting for me when I do finally arrive.I also appreciate the kindness of strangers.  I need more help here, with suitcases and directions and I do like the interaction with different people.  

More soon...in Bruges finally!

Arriving in Churchill

And so here I am, sitting on the plane, headed back to Denver.  How quickly my dream trip to Churchill ended.  What an amazing experience it is, each and every time I go!  So much happens in so little time.  When I get home it will be as though nothing has changed, no time has passed.  Much like the trip into the wardrobe in the "The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe".  I've walked into a land far, far away, and return, the only one who has changed.

The trip was wonderful!  The flight to Winnipeg a bit late, but nothing major.  The flight from Winnipeg to Churchill was a different story however.  Up at 5:30 and in the hotel lobby to meet my group at 6 AM.  I was going to be on the bus to the charter hangar with a group, but was not part of the group tour.  The tour people showed up at 6 :30 and we all boarded the bus.  It was a special bus with TV screens throughout the bus showing wonderful polar bear videos.  That was nice, especially since we had to wait at the hangar gate for quite a long time.  Finally the gates were open and we boarded the plane.  It is a strange feeling for me to walk on a plane without security, but apparently none is necessary from that part of the airport.  We were all on the plane and it was discovered that the seat in the exit row was broken...oh no...that meant we all had to deplane and hang out in the small terminal building while repairs were made.  We were told it would be 20 to 30 minutes.  Any one want to guess if that prediction was right?  Of course it wasn't!  I have yet to have any repairs that are done quickly.  So over an hour later we boarded the plane once again and this time all went well and we really did take off.  Finally...Churchill bound!

Flying to churchill, I sat next to a lovely lady, a retired school teacher from Surrey, England.  How interesting to compare the education systems of our countries.  It seems England is starting to change back to a more meaningful education philosophy, but as my new friend said, education is like an oil tanker, hard to turn around and very slow.  So many similarities everywhere it seems.  The 2 hour flight flew by as we discussed solo travel and favorite destinations, and suddenly we were landing in beautiful, windy Churchill!  Again!  Other than the guides, I was the only repeat visitor to Churchill.  People were so excited, as was I.

There was a bit of confusion as we were at the terminal, no one was sure what I was to do since I wasn't part of the actual tour group.  Just hitching a ride on a charter takes some patience, and persistence to be sure everyone doesn't leave, with me stranded in the little terminal.  All got figured out and I was offered the opportunity to take a town tour with the group or just be driven to my friends' house.  I've seen the town so I opted to be driven to see my friends.

And so I'd finally arrived in very cold, blustery Churchill...as I walked out into a different world, a white, wintry 'other world', I'd felt as if I'd walked through the wardrobe...

Packing for Canada! (again!)

Two days ago, election day,  people could be heard saying, " I'm ready to pack my bags for Canada".  Yes, I had to laugh because I actually WAS packing for Canada!  However, I will be returning to the US after my short Churchill visit to see the polar bear migration to Hudson bay.  Ahh, what energy there was in at home on election day!  Living in a "swing state" certainly did keep us in the limelight with many visits by the candidates.  I know there are some reading this from far away and some who don't share my political beliefs, but if you are reading this, you either really like me anyway, or just enjoy my very long winded trip reports.

My dear dogs were delivered to their familiar settings, Meli with my friend's family with other dogs where she will be totally spoiled, and Bram at his hang out where he has gone for 8 years, his doggie daycare, country club style.  A holiday for all of us.  And then off for another adventure for me!  

I have a few favorite places to visit, and still love experiencing new ones.  My last trip was a combination of both of those things.  It was to be the last trip of the year as I start looking for a job to pay off my trips.  However, things do come up, and now I am headed to my polar paradise, Churchill, Manitoba, Canada.  (Yes, I do have 2 paradises-Mykonos, being my tropical paradise.)  Churchill isn't quite in the arctic circle, but Hudson bay is the one place in the world where you can be guaranteed to see polar bears this time of year.  If you have followed my travels, you know this isn't my first trip to this remote northern location in Canada.  Well, it isn't even my second or third visit either!  And actually, it isn't that far north compared to many other towns and villages, but for me, it is far enough into a remote location, to be considered as such.

This was a trip that was never going to happen again, it isn't easy or inexpensive.  Just when I'd resigned myself to the fact that I'd be watching the bears this year on the polar bear live cam in the tundra, I received the most generous and amazing offer from my friends who live in Churchill.  Kevin, who I met on my Antarctica trip, lives in Churchill.  I've gotten to know his family during my visits and this year they sent me an invitation to return to Churchill using the one tour he is given to give as a gift to someone for working for the companies he is with.  This is such an amazingly, generous offer, I am still trying to believe this is happening!  But it is!  Along with Kevin and Sandy's generous offer, I was able to get my flights to Winnipeg with miles and my hotel in Winnipeg with points, making this probably the best deal to Churchill there has ever been!  I appreciate this opportunity more than words can say!  And yes, right now I feel like the luckiest person in the world!  

I am so thankful that the weather is nice because I'm still really not all that brave.  I left home before the storm moved in and it is 2degrees C and clear in Winnipeg.  Tomorrow morning I will be on a charter plane to Churchill through one of the tour companies and that will be a first.  I'm sure it will be fine, and I do always look forward to the people I meet as I head north to the bears!  Some really interesting people take this journey.  I'm hoping for cold and snow there.  If it is too warm the bears don't move around much, and to be honest, I want to see it all!  

This trip is short, but filled with bears.  When I arrive in Churchill tomorrow morning we will go out on our own to see bears.  The next two days I will be on the tundra in the tundra buggies, courtesy of Kevin!  Then a flight back to Winnipeg, a night in the hotel there and then home.  Short, but bear filled!  I'm really not sure how to show my gratitude.  I'm so touched!

And so, my bags are packed and off to Canada I go!

This Mediterranean (and More) Journey Comes to an End

I'm home.  Sick, but safe...safe might not seem like such a big deal, but it is, especially this time!  Flying when ill is a miserable experience. Three flights to get home and finally we are on our final descent of my last flight, heading into Denver, home, and an announcement is made.  "Due to weather the flight attendants are going to stay seated so please prepare yourselves for landing, seats and tray tables in their upright positions, all electronic devices turned off".  that alone was not a big deal, I've been on other flights with that announcement.  It's what came next that got my attention, which never before has happened in all my flights...this announcement repeated..."a reminder, please leave all personal belongings behind in the case of an emergency evacuation.". Really?  Not much to do but wonder why in the world THAT was said...and quite thankfully, there was no emergency evacuation on the landing.  I wonder why, but think perhaps it is better I don't know the reason!  The important thing...home safe and sound!

Before this final flight of my trip, I had time to write my Morning musings at Dulles airport...

My day started out with a nice surprise, I went to say hello to the lady at the front desk of the Marriott who I know from past trips.  At first she didn't recognize me, I'd like to think its my weight loss, but I'm sure it is because she sees thousands of people each week.  She quickly remembered me and we chatted a bit.  I had not emerged from my room since I'd arrived, feeling so badly, I even missed dinner!  I went out to find a cup of hot tea, and she offered to buy me breakfast.  What a nice surprise, and a generous one too, since it was $20.  Prices for breakfasts at hotels are outrageous.  So I was treated to breakfast and enjoyed the nice meal before heading to the airport, courtesy of patti.  I did decide to take two Advil before the flight today, just couldn't face a repeat of the misery of yesterday.  

I dragged all my luggage to the lobby, I had a close room, and there was the very kind head of the bellman, drivers.  He gave me a great greeting, and then said he would take me himself and would drop me off upstairs, which is not where they are supposed to go, but is right by the check in counters, saving me many hassles trying to find a cart and pushing my luggage up a very tough ramp when dropped at the arrivals area.  How does one thank someone for that kindness?  (yes a tip, but it meant so much more)  So he loaded me up and drove off with me, explaining to the other people that their driver would be leaving soon.  As you know, I love feeling special, it happens so rarely in my real life.  Ahhh, but sometimes in my travels...

This airport report may be boring, not sure I'll even post it, but since I am apparently feeling better, I decided to write about my Dulles experience.  Times have changed and if you have flown in the past, you might be able to see the differences.

I am flying first class, I used miles and money to get the upgrade, it used to be only miles, no money.  Now it is expensive, but the comfort on international flights makes it the only way I can/will really travel.

After being dropped off I paid $3 for a cart and loaded my belongings and ventured inside.  There was a porter who offered to take my luggage and I said no thank you, but then regretted that later, he probably really needed the money and I should have spent a few more dollars to help him out.  I will think of that next time.  I've seen and heard of so many sad financial circumstances this trip, it makes me so much more aware of the economic devastation around the world.

I entered the airport and went to the priority line, the united representative asked me where I was going, I told her to Denver, first class and she said I had to go to the end line, which was quite a bit longer and further away.  I'm better, but still very weak.  I said I was a premier passenger and then she looked at my ticket and let me go in.  

Now in the old days there were united agents at the counter to help.  Now I walked up and stood there, totally ignored!  I was the only passenger and not one person offered to help me.  I waited and then finally asked if anyone was going to help me.  The counter was manned by about 4, maybe 5 people in 'airserve' uniforms and they told me I needed to check myself in at the machine.  I said usually there is someone to help and they said there was a rep and I looked around and saw her talking with another rep from the next section.  She never even glanced at the counter, or at me to see if anyone needed help.  No one paid any attention to me.  So after a little wait, I asked the air serve people to please help me.  One, with a lot of effort and no desire, finally helped me get the info in and then walked away, leaving me on my own.  I got the boarding pass when it printed out and was standing with a cart of luggage and one of the men asked me if I had any luggage to check.  Really?  I looked at the cart and said yep, was anyone going to help with that or did I do that myself too.  The person who did it had me move over, the people working at the counter where I was never helped so I went to his area.  Finally baggage checked.  He told me it was a very long way to my gate and since I didn't feel good, and I know I looked terrible, he said I should get a wheelchair.  Since I'm so weak and cough incessantly with any exertion I decided to agree.  

I waited where I was told to, and it was right in front of the rep being sure no one entered the premier line.  No one did.  It appears i was the only premium passenger at that time.  Two young men came up and said they were active military, too bad, they got sent down to the far end check in counters with the long lines.  I asked her if she really turned away our military men and she said yes, there are a lot of them (thank God, they are protecting our country, I'm sure glad there are a lot of them), and a lot of premier passengers, so they just can't let them in that line, don't forget there is not a passenger in that whole area!  I was so disgusted, I said not right now, and there were only two.  I said I would have given them my place if they had been there at the same time.  She said that they give them free luggage and free seat selection, yeah, I guess that is nice for the people ensuring our freedom.  Disgusted even more.  

Finally my wheelchair came and we were off for the long trek to my gate.  Got to the wheelchair security and apparently it is new, only open two days.  There were about 15 wheelchairs ahead of us.  I know I wont be traveling when I am old enough to really need the help.  There was one old man who obviously didn't speak English and could barely move and no one helped him take off his suit coat or his shoes.  My heart was so sad and I was too far back to do anything, I asked the man pushing my wheelchair to tell someone to help him and he did nothing.  It is sad to need help in this day and age.  When I went through I asked the guard checking us in security why no one helped the elderly who needed it and he said they are supposed to, and he seemed appreciative that I noticed it and I said I would mention it to the company and he smiled.  When I got through there was a lady who couldn't bend over to get her shoes on, again no one offered to help her so I was glad I could.  

It was a long way from check in to the gate my flight was leaving from, and with my coughing, a very good thing I didnt try walking all that way.  The lounge was next to the gate my flight left from so that was very convenient.   I arrived at the lounge, with a bit of time to wait, but not even an hour.  I looked around, it was unusually empty but did start filling up shortly after I arrived.  I noticed how almost everyone, was working with an electronic device...iPads, laptops, phones and such.  Ahh, but there was one older couple, yes, just one, and he actually had a newspaper in his hand that he was reading and his wife had a pencil and the paper's crossword puzzle in her lap...a wonderful, comforting scene from the past.

Maybe the world isn't so different today, maybe I just notice it more because I'm in the position of needing help more than ever before.  But I am sure that service has been cut to bare basics.  And when the president of united does his big sales speech on the wonders that are now united on every single flight before the safety announcements, I wish I could stand up and fill in the missing information, the customer service that is at a minimum and the planned reduction in size of the regular economy seating, to start with. But does anyone really care?

Currently I'm on my flight to Denver, the last in a long journey home, looking forward to picking up my big guy at the kennel on my way home from the airport and getting home to sleep.  just looked up and there's only one movie on this flight and it is Battleship, wonder who picks the one movie that is shown on a flight, I probably wouldn't pick one where a plane is crashing and world devastation is the main plot.  But apparently that is just me...again more aware of things these days.

However,  I am the one that complained to the company whose word game app I use when killing game ads started being played right after the aurora shootings.  On a word game?  I received a very nice response from the man at that company explaining that he completely understands my problem with that and that an independent company does the ads attached to the game but he would contact them about that one.  Too much time I have, guess.  :-)

Back to now, what a marvelous adventure this has been!  Friends, food, and fabulous sights from beginning to end.  (soon the misery of being so sick will be a distant memory, and pale in comparison to the the joys.)  

Thank you for sharing it with me...hasta luego...